Let’s talk about sex…or not?

Let’s talk about sex…or not?

First-born children are more likely to hear the facts of life from their parents than are subsequent children, according to a study published in the journal Sex Education. Later-born children may be learning from their older siblings.

In a study from the London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine, 48 percent of first-born females and 37 percent of first-born males reported, having learned about sex from a parent at the age of 14. The reports from middle-born children showed a decrease to 40 percent and 29 percent, respectively, for females and males.

“In addition to seeing differences according to birth order, we also found clear differences between the sexes; across all birth order categories, men consistently reported lower parental involvement in sex education than women,” said Dr. Lotte Elton, lead researcher, in a news release. “We have seen from previous research that parents are less likely to speak about sexual matters with their male children. Our findings suggest that there may be even less communication about sex with male children if they are middle- or last-born.”

Researchers used data from a group of 5,000 individuals aged 17-29 who were either first-born, middle-born or last-born and analyzed the survey responses related to involvement of parents and siblings in sex education.

Dr. Aaron Traeger, a pediatrician at Advocate BroMenn Medical Center in Normal, Ill., shares his thoughts on approaching this sensitive topic with your children.

“It’s difficult to talk with your kids about sex, and to be frank, my hang-ups about it are related to me not wanting to admit that my kids are growing up. But I see it like taking off a bandage; once the conversation gets started, it will flow pretty easily.”

“Sometimes you need to plan for it to happen,” Dr. Traeger adds. “For example, if in the car with one kid or after hearing something in the news, you can make a point to bring up the conversation.”

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  1. I would hope they know how it works before age 14! Schools teach it in 4th or 5th grade.

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Lynn Hutley
Lynn Hutley

Lynn Hutley, health enews contributor, is coordinator of public affairs and marketing at Advocate BroMenn Medical Center and Advocate Eureka Hospital in central Illinois. Having grown up in a family-owned drug store, it is no surprise that Lynn has spent almost 18 years working in the health care industry. She has a degree in human resources management from Illinois State University and is always ready to tackle Trivia Night.