The mind trick that makes you less likely to cheat

The mind trick that makes you less likely to cheat

With the average person meeting tens of thousands of new people over the course of their lifetime, how do couples manage to stay committed and connected? The answer may surprise you.

A new study found that people in committed relationships tend to downgrade the attractiveness of others, potentially protecting relationships from the temptation of cheating.

In two separate trials, researchers from Rutgers University presented more than 100 participants with scenarios and photographs, asking them to rate the people presented. Students who reported being in a committed relationship rated those labeled “single” as less attractive.

In the second trial, researchers asked participants to report how satisfied they were in their current relationships. Those who were happy in their relationships rated people as less attractive than expected, while those who reported being unsatisfied in their current relationship were more likely to rate single people as more attractive.

“These findings are interesting, but not surprising. Our brains are good at helping us shift perceptions in order to achieve short- and long-term goals,” says Dr. Deborah Chiles, a psychologist on staff at Advocate South Suburban Hospital in Hazel Crest, Ill. “Dieting is a good example. Someone determined to stay on track and lose weight might look at a doughnut and rather than see a tasty snack, see unnecessary sugar and fats, thus helping them avoid the temptation of eating it.”

In the study, students were offered incentives for choosing the “right” answers and some photographs were manipulated to make them appear less attractive. The students in relationships were not swayed, however, suggesting their perceptions of attractiveness had actually shifted.

“Relationships are an important part of the human experience, and contribute to both emotional and physical health,” says Dr. Chiles. “Past research has suggested that genetics may play a role in maintaining happy relationships. Perhaps this is another side of that.”

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