These 5 weird behaviors are totally normal for kids

Toddlers and young kids can have interesting behaviors, especially to adults who aren’t around them on a daily basis. Sometimes those behaviors might even concern parents or other adults. But the good news is that most of those behaviors are normal.

“Many of the behaviors young children exhibit that might seem strange to some adults are completely developmentally appropriate,” explains Dr. Julie Malachinski, a pediatrician with Advocate Children’s Hospital. “They may be exploring cause and effect, learning a new skill or just experimenting with the world around them.”

Dr. Malachinski explains five common behaviors for kids:

1. Asking to read the same book every day

Children thrive with routines in place. In some cases, they are seeking out routine and a sense of familiarity and comfort, like when they choose the same book. Even if they have a library of books to choose from, having the opportunity to select that familiar story gives children feelings of control and autonomy.

2. Putting things in their mouth

Young babies learn about the world around them by mouthing different objects. It helps them explore textures, tastes and shapes. Of course, it’s critical to keep children safe during this phase of development, as many things do not belong in mouths. Many babies will also go on to explore their own body parts by putting them in their mouth, like their feet.

3. Spinning in circles

As children master skills, like walking and running, they start to explore other ways in which they can move their body and experience various sensations. Spinning is a way they seek out vestibular stimulation, which can help improve their balance, coordination and spatial awareness. They may also be intrigued by the sensation of becoming dizzy and want to explore that feeling.

4. Saying “no” to everything

While often frustrating for parents and caregivers, children who say “no” over and over are going through a developmental phase in which they learn to test limits and exert control. Instead of letting it get to you, find ways to give your child the control they’re seeking without derailing the day or giving into tantrums. For example, offer two options at breakfast for your child to choose from. Be mindful to limit the number of choices – toddlers and children need parameters while exploring the fact that options are possible.

5. Repetitively dumping toys

Similar to many of the above actions, toy dumping is a way for kids to explore their world – the speed at which toys fall, the noise they make, and general cause and effect. Toy dumping can become frustrating for parents, but it is a short phase during which toddlers learn a lot. You can encourage cleanup by positively reinforcing your kid when they pick up the toys.

When to see a doctor

“If at any point you have questions or concerns about your child’s behavior, reach out to their pediatrician,” Dr. Malachinski says.

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