5 questions you might be too shy to ask your gynecologist

5 questions you might be too shy to ask your gynecologist

They’ve heard it all before.

And so women should feel comfortable talking to and asking questions of their obstetrician/gynecologist. Over the course of a woman’s lifetime, there very likely will be some ‘taboo’ or embarrassing topics that come up. But a good OB/GYN should communicate that what you think might be cringeworthy questions are actually totally appropriate.

Dr. Dipti Patel, an obstetrician and gynecologist with Advocate Medical Group, says there is no such thing as an embarrassing topic when it comes to your gynecology visit. She discusses five common questions women may be hesitant to ask their doctor.

1. Why is there a ‘funny’ smell down there?

According to Dr. Patel, foul-smelling discharge can be a sign of a vaginal infection. These infections can be caused by something as simple as a change in pH or something serious, such as a sexually transmitted infection. She recommends talking to your physician right away about a smell that is abnormal.

2. What should a woman know about the shape, size and color?

The appearance of a woman’s vulva can differ significantly from one person to another.

“The labia minora, which are commonly referred to as the ‘inner lips’, come in a variety of shapes,” Dr. Patel says. “Some are small and do not protrude past the labia majora, or outer lips; others can be large and protrude beyond the labia majora. Although this may cause some cosmetic concerns, it does not pose any medical issue.”

3. Is vaginal itching normal?

Dr. Patel says that itching is not normal and can be a sign of a yeast infection.

“Typically, the signs of a yeast infection include itching, thick, white discharge or redness,” she says. “Several conditions that can also present with symptoms of itching are lichen sclerosis, lichen simplex and even skin cancer on the vulva.” Dr. Patel says you should be evaluated by your doctor if you have persistent vaginal itching.

4. How much discharge is normal?

The quantity, color and consistency of discharge varies widely from person to person, Dr Patel says.

“Women should see their gynecologist if their discharge has a foul odor or if a rash, vulvar itching or discomfort accompanies it,” she says. “If your discharge is green and frothy, this can be a sign of a vaginal infection or a sexually transmitted disease, and a woman should see her doctor immediately.”

5. Is it safe to have sex on your period?

While having sex on your period may be messy, intercourse during menstruation is safe. However, Dr. Patel encourages women to use contraception because it is still possible to become pregnant while on your period. Dr. Patel explains that some women have long periods that can overlap with ovulation. “Sperm can also survive for up to five days,” she says.

“Gynecologists specialize in the female reproductive tract,” says Dr. Patel. “We’ve seen and heard it all; No topic should be off limits. Answering questions is what we’re here for.”

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One Comment

  1. This is good info, but truthfully the information presented seems kind of teen-age. I appreciate the honesty, and yes funny smells and discharge need to be checked by a doctor, but what about some of the hard-to-talk-about issues that lots of women face each day? Such as pelvic floor disorders, fibroid and cyst issues, painful sex, considerations for pregnancy and post-partum…? I get that smells and discharge can be embarrassing topics, but for most women these issues are more easily brought up compared to some of the other gynecological issues they face. I don’t want to minimize the problems listed in this article, but the look, size, shape, and other issues mentioned are usually not the ones causing major health issues. I guess the whole point of this is to encourage me to see an Advocate doctor anyways….

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Tiffany Nguyen
Tiffany Nguyen

Tiffany Nguyen, health enews contributor, is a public affairs and marketing intern at Advocate Support Centers in Downers Grove, IL. She is a graduate of Northern Illinois University with a degree in public health. She is currently pursuing a Master’s in Business Administration focusing specifically on healthcare management at Lewis University. Tiffany enjoys hanging out with her friends, exploring new restaurants, and binge watching Netflix shows.