How surrogacy could help grow your family
Many celebrity couples along with many others have chosen to expand their families through the surrogacy process for health or personal reasons.
A surrogate, sometimes known as a gestational carrier, is a woman who carries a pregnancy for another individual or couple. The surrogacy process consists of fertilizing the intended parent’s egg with the intended parent’s sperm through in vitro fertilization to make an embryo. Sometimes donor eggs or donor sperm are used. This embryo is then implanted in the uterus of the surrogate mother, who carries and eventually gives birth to the baby.
“It allows somebody to have a genetic child who otherwise wouldn’t be able to. This is an amazing gift to give someone,” says Dr. Allison K. Rodgers, double board-certified gynecologist and reproductive endocrinologist affiliated with Advocate Health Care.
People will choose to use a gestational carrier for a variety of reasons.
“For example, if the patient suffers from specific cardiac conditions, brain malformations, kidney failure or bad diabetes then this would make it dangerous for them to carry a pregnancy,” Dr. Rodgers says. “If the patient has problems with their uterus or has had multiple miscarriages and can’t hold a pregnancy then this is also a reason why a gestational carrier would be used.”
Women who want to be surrogates must meet several criteria.
“They must have had uncomplicated pregnancies in the past and undergo an extensive health screening that covers their pregnancy history, physiological evaluation, and an infectious disease screening to see if they would be a good fit. An ideal candidate would be a non-smoker, less than 40 years of age, doesn’t utilize alcohol or cannabis and who has had at least one successful vaginal birth,” says Dr. Jennifer Hirshfeld-Cytron, double board-certified gynecologist and reproductive endocrinologist affiliated with Advocate Health Care.
Those who would like to use a gestational carrier would first meet with a reproductive endocrinologist. The reproductive endocrinologist will then evaluate the intended parents and find out where they’re getting the eggs, sperm and uterus. These are the three components that are needed to make a baby. Some or all of these components may come from the intended parents. It is illegal in Illinois to use a gestational carrier with donor sperm and donor eggs. After the embryos are created, the reproductive endocrinologist transfers the embryo to the uterus of the gestational carrier.
Surrogacy is an extraordinary journey and deeply rewarding experience for both the intended parents and the surrogate mother.
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As an adopted adult, I can see how this can cause many issues later. The baby is biologically connected to the mother who carries him or her. This causes trauma that needs to be addressed. It’s so easy to say, “it’s a beautiful gift.” Babies are Not gifts. Just because some things are possible, doesn’t mean they are truly ethical.
Well said Shelley. I also don’t think we can escape the reality that this is a financial transaction to use a random women’s body. How many poor women have the ability to do this? Lets be honest, zero. These are well off women asking poorer women to carry their child for them, not something like our organ donor system. So many ethical issues with this.